Have you ever wondered why some men and women fit each other better than others?
Now that I’m talking, I’m really talking about the genitals. I know this may seem a little cliche, but it is true that size not only can matter, but can smell, taste, color and shape of the human genitalia.
It was part of the tantric tradition to recruit the genitals of women and men in both Indian and Taoist cultures. In the classical Indian texts, women are divided into four different types, which have traditionally been preserved in the era of Tantria. And there are similar classification systems found in the Taoist tradition and even in some Native American tribes.
Hindus not only classified women of the yoni type, but also classified the size of the sexual oranges for men. The significance of genitalization varied from culture to culture, but it was believed that by defining different types of yoni and lingam, one could understand sexual preferences in love for this type of person. Matching size close to each other for both the lingam and yoni was also considered important for sexual compatibility. In the Hindu tradition, there are three types of yoni and lingam; Hare, Bull and Horse for Men and Deer, Mare and Elephant for Women. Animal names were often used as nature was an excellent way to identify some characteristics that were similar, if not exact, to humans.
The Taoist system seemed to me somewhat patriarchal, since they preferred young virgins over other women and therefore limited their typing system.
But I found that the Indian system of genital writing Cherokee is very accurate and useful for understanding the differences between women and men and how to sexually delight every other type.
The Sweet Medicine Quodoushka is a form of Tantra that was supposedly developed by the Cherokee Indians, but first of all it was directed forward by Harley Swift Dear, a man of Indian Cherokee medicine. Harley Swift Deer founded the Metis Deer tribe, which is a whole Native American teaching that also includes sexuality.
It was many years ago when I first started learning tantra with Lori Grace that I learned about the Indian Tantric system of Cherokee and its genital typification. It was a revelation to me at that time, and the information I received seemed so accurate. In this system there are 9 types for men and women, and they are laid out on the wheel of medicine.
There are 5 basic types, and then 4 combinations, which can consist of 9 types. For women, there are Deer, Wolf, Buffalo, Sheep and Dancing, and for men there are bear, coyote, deer, horse and dancing. But a person could be a combination of both a dancing man and a bear, or, as I like, call it the “Dancing Bear”. Or a woman could be Sheep and Buffalo. This will mean that she has the combined characteristics of both types. I had an experience when I taught this information in a seminar that women are fairly faithful to the characteristics defined in this system. Characteristics that are identified for men and women include: penis or vagina size, liquid taste, odor, distance between the vaginal opening and the clitoris, lubrication and location of the G-Spot, liquid temperature, types of movement that he / she may have both sexes, how long a person needs an orgasm and the type of orgasm they can have. (This system also has 4 types of orgasm). This system is so accurate that it is the main one that I use when I teach.
So, you can ask yourself at this time, what to study this information for me? Again, the main reason you learned this is to become the best lover for your partner. The more information you learn about the sexual characteristics of a person, the better you will look like a lover. I also believe that when you understand the different characteristics that create a harmonious and compatible form, you can either choose amateurs with these characteristics, or find other ways to make it work.
An example is the myth that all women love big lingam. Well, I'm here to spoil this myth, because a woman who does not have a deep yoni, for example, a Wolf or Buffalo, will not find a Horse-man very well. But she can find the Dancer just perfect. Wolfie has a rather shallow yoni, which is not very deep, about 6 inches. Thus, the lingam of a dancing person, who is about 6-7, is ideal for this type. Thus, this information can be very practical and help you understand why some people are better combined with each other. than to judge.
In many indigenous cultures, including Cherokee Indians, both men and women were ordained before taking their rightful place in the community as a man or a woman. The men had the Fiery Woman as their guide, and the Women the Fiery Man to teach them many skills regarding relationships and household items, including how to make love for each of the five main sex types. It may take several years, and after that the person is ready to marry.
Today, we no longer participate in these skills as part of our training to be an adult. Therefore, by spending time exploring Tantra and learning about different sexual characteristics, you will provide you with the training you missed as a young man or woman. Today we have to do it for ourselves.
As a teacher of Tantra, I discovered that with regard to sexuality you can never know all this. There is always something new to discover, explore and try in the sexual arena. I urge you all to take the time to learn about yourself and what your partner likes.
Learning how to be a skillful, cunning and heartfelt lover is a gift that you give not only to yourself, but to the men or women with whom you decide to cooperate. You may not want to know how to please different men or women sexually, but knowing what type of person you and your partner will expand your sex education and increase the pleasure you give to each other. I always say that you can never learn too much about how to be an amazing lover.
Several good resources for genital typing are found in Sex Secrets, Nick Douglas and Penny Slinger.
