BIG WOMEN WITH BREAST CANCER THINK ABOUT SURVIVAL ........ BUT DID YOU SEARCH FOR SURVIVAL SURVIVAL?
Life plays its role as the Acts of the Opera. There are several stages, and when we live, we have roller coasters of emotions; maximums and minimums, agony and ecstasy, joy and sadness, but only some of them. Diseases, such as breast cancer, tend to exacerbate these experiences and emotions; you have experienced many storms in life, and some of them have gone through it all. Then you are diagnosed with breast cancer, and the threat of losing your life may be the most instigator who can help you find your life!
Women now survive longer with breast cancer, the diagnosis has improved incredibly, and the treatment has become more orderly. Integrative or complementary medicine has also played a role, and most people who experience breast cancer at a certain stage of their illness will use some aspects of additional medical care.
You may have learned about self-help, lived with your passion, were in a group, told your story to someone who really listened, and you survived for so long. *
There are recognized stages in a woman’s breast cancer experience:
- Diagnosis, surgery, treatment plan, phase of treatment, end of treatment, treatment after waiting - I'll be fine. Some are fine, but for others that repeat the cycle. You can have a repetition, and everything can become even more real. The good news is that I met some incredibly loyal ladies who have had five or six repetitions, and they still live well, and we can learn a lot from these long-term survivors.
Illness can be a lonely business even in the middle of a sea of support. This may seem like an obvious statement, however, when it is identified in the workshop, it all says with a nod in the room. This is a very personal experience, and no one can do it for you. In the overview of all cancers, we see that the path for many is the same, but each journey along the path is so different. This or was your unique journey through breast cancer. Hearing the stories of others in a support group is the closest thing you can understand and empathize with your own situation, and it is often in the safe environment of the group, tell real stories, stories that help give meaning to your own unique life and your own unique experience in the field. cancer. It must be said that the groups that take women at all stages of breast cancer; you need a skilled facilitator so that stories about more experienced women, sometimes on the second or third repetition, relate to the fear of newly diagnosed women. For most women, support groups can increase survival. Research by Dr. David Spiegel concluded that by visiting a support group, you can double your lifespan. **
Cancer experiences that challenge us are those that affect our appearance, that change our body, our image, our self-esteem, sexuality and confront us with problems that we may never have dreamed of, which we will have to face. . For several years I belong to the colostomy clan and once; clan ileostomy; very difficult life experience, especially in the early days of new relationships! For my sisters in the dairy clan, breast removal can be incredibly difficult for most, but like a colostomy, if that means your survival. You're doing it! But in this world there are no changes without consequences. The rest of our lives before it becomes dependent on how we cope with such consequences, that is, how do we survive survival? I believe that, along with improved treatment methods and early diagnosis, the introduction of lumpectomy, and in some cases, breast implants (after mastectomy) and improved prosthesis, had a positive effect on both survival and quality of life. When women find themselves and their lives in search of a normal life, they know that they have been transformed by experience. After a life-threatening illness, you can never go back like before. Something has moved, and it is not only about life, but also has to do with comfort and the acceptance of death when it comes.
But what is this, an intangible, deep experience that we experience in the process of illness? This is a question that I have been asking myself and my clients for many years. However, it was only after I had my own experience that I found the answer on a deep level within me. When we are experiencing or are experiencing a serious life change or increasing life experience, we communicate and learn something inside, which I will call ours without change the core. Before our illness, we may have worn many masks or veneers that separated us from this changing core, our true self. This is easy for women because we put on so many hats and absorb so many roles in our lives. However, this core is always there, this is a place where wisdom can be learned from your experience, and this is the place that will help you move on so that you are not stuck. in your own story. When women open or I have to repeat the discovery of this place inside, there has been a shift in how she sees and experiences life. Many women note that as they recover, their history becomes homeless; they no longer care about small things in life, changes in priorities, they have become steadier, more perfect judgments and are aware of their concern for themselves and especially how they decide to deal with the consequences of life.
Being in contact with this immutable nucleus is a vital component of surviving survival.
With self-control (and not selfishness) you can take responsibility for your life, even if the situation around you has not changed! This is the moment when survival and survival survive, turns into prosperity in your new life.
By Grace Gauler ©
